5 reasons that might destroy the friendship between a man and a woman

"For men, all women - women, except the one he loves, it is for him - a man. For women, all men - the people, besides, she loves it for her - a man. "



The debate on whether there is a friendship between a man and woman in general, have not ceased for a very long time. Someone says that it is and proves it by example, someone secondly, that the friendship between the sexes, and there can not be.



How many people - so much and opinions. But now is not about that. For example, the friendship between the sexes still exists. Unfortunately, save it for many years much more difficult than to destroy. "Kill" a friendship can be, making only one wrong step, yielding momentary desire or crossed some invisible line.



There are many reasons that can destroy the friendship between a man and a woman. Here are just a few of them.



1. Recognition in Letter

You know a thousand years, played together in the sandbox, went to kindergarten, were sitting at a desk .... Now you no longer 15, awkward age behind. The guy you are familiar with since childhood, becoming a man. You all also nice talking to, you can share with him everything in the world, talk about their love triumphs and defeats, complain "to the vest" and say, until the morning in the kitchen for a cup of coffee. You have him comfortable and quiet, he never asked for something more ... But one day, still sitting on the very same kitchen, he suddenly recognized you in love. Says so that in all the intercepts: that has long been in love with you, can not imagine my life without you and that wants to try to engage in closer relations. Such recognition can ruin the friendship once and for all. The same thing could happen in the reverse situation, when you fall in love with his childhood friend and tell him about his feelings.



2. "Friendly" Sex

Personally I have nothing but the phrase "friendly sex" causes confusion and irony. But quite often on the Internet or in glossy magazines found precisely such a notion. After drinking one day with a friend, you find yourself in one bed. When you wake up in the morning, this story does not look so cheerful as the previous evening. My head aches, mood is ruined, relationships - too. Not always carried out after a stormy night, you can restore what was before her.



3. Get married, or being in love with another man

When one of the "friends" married or married - the friendship may be interrupted. You may need just a little break. Perhaps it forever.

Not every woman will perceive the news that her husband is one female, with great enthusiasm, and positive emotions voob



A similar situation could arise if one of the two of you meet the man fell in love, wants to hold him all his spare time, etc. In this case, it will disappear from the horizon, the calls will respond briefly and reluctantly, your meetings will become less and less, and then, perhaps, cease Islands



4. Disappointment, loss of interests

A woman can be friends with a man only if he is really interested in her. As companion, mentor, assistant .... If the interest of communication disappears - dies, and friendship. With men this is the case a little different, assert psychologists: they could be friends with a woman only if she is physically attracted him. If this situation occurs in frustration - as a result, loses interest, and with friendly ties can say goodbye.



5. Ryovna

Yes, yes, the friendship between the sexes, it is also possible. Your friend calls you for a thousand times a day, asked to report on how and with whom you spend your free evening ... How are you and your friend, a man may be jealous of your friends, girlfriends, lovers, and even her husband. Here the situation is similar to what happens in normal loving relationship. If jealousy becomes intolerable, goes some boundaries, it is worth considering whether you need a friend?



In my subjective opinion, friendship - is what happens between two people, regardless of gender, age, creed or color. Hetero friendship hrupche than usual. And if you found a real friend - a man, I'm truly envious. Appreciate and cherish these relations.



Opinions:

Chudo: «I believe that the friendship between a man and a woman there. But it is not eternal. There is, until one of them crossed the border. But there are friends (judging from personal experience) with which you are interested, a lot in common, there is mutual understanding and mutual support, but you are not physically attracted. And this mutual, I know that I do not like this man, and in principle can not be like, but it strikes me inner peace and a better friend than he had in my life there, and will not be! "



Reed to: "Who said that definitely should be something more? I, for instance, was my favorite girl, my treasure, and a girl - a friend, just a friend and nothing more, and it is cool, so that may be. Not everything in this world is based on sex. So I can say that love and friendship, things are very different in character and in the perception, saying that the friendship man, one who is not perceived as a sexual object. "